This new proposed revision to the Equality Act by the EHRC is essentially looking like a rollback of pretty much all of the few legal protections that trans people have in the UK. It's a backdoor bathroom ban that only serves to make us even more vulnerable to harassment, assaults, alienation, poor mental health, unfair policing - you name it. All just so the tories can continue to try distract from all the real problems they've caused and refuse to fix.
Let's look at just one hypothetical for a second: either I continue using female bathrooms (like I have been for almost a year, without issue from myself) and risk getting arrested, or I use the mens and wait to get inevitably, violently assaulted in any number of traumatic ways. I've already been SA'd in a busy park, in broad daylight, without anyone around the situation doing a thing - you think a space where gender is as heavily policed as a mens fucking bathroom is going to be at all safe for me, or any other transfemme? Are we so quick to forget how at-risk trans people are already - when a trans child was murdered in a public space in broad daylight not even two months ago?
It dehumanising, alienating, and humiliating to have your rights kicked around like a political football. The media and prominent TERFs like JK Rowling keep describing trans women like we're some evil cabal of all-powerful anti-feminists when the reality I know is that most trans people are just trying to barely scrape by these days.
Healthcare is either prohibitively expensive or with waiting lists so long that it may as well be non-existent. The rate of hate crimes against trans people is skyrocketing, and 88% of them go unreported (because of course they do - the police do not take us seriously.) These days I can't even so much as dare to walk down the street without getting stared at with contempt and suspicion by strangers I've never met before... just for existing.
Coming out and transitioning was the best thing I've ever done for myself - I'm not constantly suicidal for starters. I now know what its like to just exist without the constant numbness and disassociation that comes with living a lie so deeply ingrained into your identity that you don't even know its there. Discovering who I really am, and what parts of me were actually me all along, has been a joy and I feel like I've lived more in the last year than in my whole life up until that point. Understanding how beautiful transness is is what makes seeing all this targeted abuse towards us so nightmarish. We just want a chance to live, not as shells of who we could be, but like normal fucking people who're given as many opportunities to thrive and flourish as anyone else. Apparently that deserves to be punished, and punished so... so hard... How pointless. 🙁
Fuck Kemi Badenoch. Fuck the Tories. Fuck Rishi Sunak. Fuck the EHRC. Fuck TERFs. Fuck the UK press. Fuck this stupid, meaningless """culture war""". Fuck this nightmare of a country.